Several years ago, I noticed how often the word ‘amazing’ was used by contestants on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette. “___ looks amazing… The dinner was amazing… ___ wore the most amazing dress… We are at this amazing place with amazing food… etc. etc.” Just count the amazings next time the show airs. What is amazing to me is how un-amazing the claimed reality of this reality show is. Can amazing, true, lasting love be found on television? In my opinion, it is virtually imp